FRIENDS WITHOUT BENEFITS: UNDERSTANDING THE DARK SIDES OF WORKPLACE FRIENDSHIP

• 成果类型: Article
• 署名作者: Pillemer, Julianna; Rothbard, Nancy P.
• 署名单位: University of Pennsylvania; University of Pennsylvania
• 刊物名称: ACADEMY OF MANAGEMENT REVIEW
• ISSN/ISSBN: 0363-7425
• DOI: 10.5465/amr.2016.0309
• 发表日期: 2018
• 页码: 635-660
• 关键词: GROUP DECISION-MAKING; DEEP-LEVEL DIVERSITY; WORK GROUP DIVERSITY; self-disclosure; social networks; INTERPERSONAL-ATTRACTION; ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS; procedural justice; PERSPECTIVE-TAKING; Knowledge transfer

摘要

Although many scholars and practitioners have assumed that workplace friendships lead to desirable organizational outcomes, a growing body of research suggests important complexities and downsides associated with them. This indicates a need to better understand how and when workplace friendships may lead to harmful outcomes, especially in light of organizational and technological shifts that are changing the way employees connect. Drawing on theories of close relationships, social exchange, and boundary management, we present a theoretical framework highlighting how four defining features of friendship (informality, voluntariness, communal norms, and socioemotional goals) are in tension with four fundamental elements of organizational life (formal roles, involuntary constraints, exchange norms, and instrumental goals). We also highlight how mutual self-disclosure and perceived similarity develop and deepen friendships but also lead to downsides for individuals, groups, and organizations. We articulate how specific features of a focal friendship clique (e.g., closeness, maturity, and status of members) may amplify or buffer negative aspects and how social media affect friendship formation and tensions. Our theoretical framework should inform new theory and research on positive relationships at work and boundary management of professional and personal identities, as well as how changes to work and technology affect workplace relationships.